| Location | Tulsa, Oklahoma |
| Age | 39 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 22/02/1969 |
| Date of Death | 04/04/2008 |
| Visitors | 2,291 since 16/01/2009 |
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Allen was born Feb. 22, 1969 to Joe & Lois Bauders. He was the sweetest, cutest baby. My mom's &
dad's first grand child. He was our everything. When He was 2 1/2 yrs., his baby brother, Terry was
born. Allen was only a baby himself, and was never jealous of him. He loved his brother. We lived at
Mingo, on the outskirts of Tulsa, Okla. He started school at Mingo Elementary, where he attended for
8 yrs. He played in the band, played basketball and baseball. He was a terrific pitcher. Other
coaches from the other teams would even comment on his pitching ability. We moved to Collinsville
where he graduated from Collinsville High School in 1987. He attended vo-tech for 2 yrs. where he
learned his trade as a machinst. He loved the cabin. We spent all of our summers down there. He
loved to water ski, drive the pontoon,kept the fire pit going,always spashing someone with water! He
was always bringing down some sort of toy for the kids to play with. He loved kids, and was a big
kid himself. That's what we all loved about him, always joking, & cutting up. He & Terry could
really make us laugh. Our boys had that very special brother bond. Even though they wouldn't see
each other all the time, they had the brother love, and everyone that knew them, knew that. He was
brought up with cats & dogs. He loved animals. He got this dog that was part wolf & german shepard,
named him "Dakota". He raised him from a puppy. Had Dakota for years, then mom & dad got him when he
was really old. Took care of him til he died. (Our grand dog). He never really got another one for
himself. His wife Kelly would bring dogs in and had 1 when they married in March, 2006. He loved
them all. (More grand dogs!)Allen died April 4, 2008 in a single car accident. It was the worst day
of our lives. We miss him so much, words can't even express. Our family is no longer whole. We know
that we will join him in Heaven, when God calls us each home. In the meantime, we have our memories,
and know that he is and always will be with us in spirit. He is with his "Mema" Waleeta Gordon, who
went to Heaven Sept. 10, 2005. She was waiting for him with open arms. We miss both of them so very
much.
i could not stay
Iam sorry that i couldn't stay
i wanted to you know,but my time
on earth had ended,so god said i had to go
do you know that i still love you?
do you know that i still care?
just because you can't seee me,
doesn't mean i am not there,
i will be there in the darkness
i will be there in the rain
i'll be there when your happy
i will be there through the pain
death can not destroy the bond god as made
or the love that we still share.our hopes
our dreams,our thoughts are one
trust your hearts and know i am there.so keep
the faith,don't give up hope one day you'll
understand,god is still great god is still good
now live the life planned
a bond unspoken can never be broken
it's a mere token of our love so unil we meet again
i love you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
12TH JULY 2009
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β•β A MESSAGE FROM YOUR ANGEL β•β
♥ I'd Rather See You Smiling ♥
(© Alan Pemberton)
You must not think that I have gone
Please don't grieve or pine
I'd rather see you smiling
Laughing - working - looking fine
Death is an exciting key
Which opens many doors
It leads us into other worlds
Quite similar to yours
Life is not an accident
Death is not the end
God designed a mystery
Life and death do blend
So do not think that I have gone
Please don't brood or pine
I'd rather see you smiling
Laughing - working - looking fine
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♥ I Promise ♥
(Author Unknown)
I promise I won't cry forever
But I need to just today.
I promise I will remember
How to live and how to play.
I promise that I'll dry my tears
When the heartache goes away.
I promise that it won't take years
But I need another day.
I promise that I'll live my life
As you would want me to.
I promise when I'm facing strife
I'll face it straight and true.
I promise I will endeavour
To do the best I can each day.
I promise I won't cry forever
But I need to just today.
5TH JUNE 2009
ITS HARD TO HIDE A BROKEN HEART.........
HOW CAN ANYONE SEE MY BROKEN HEART
THEY WOULD NOT KNOW WHERE TO START
THIS IS NOT SOMETHING ANYONE CAN SEE
MY HEART IS HIDING INSIDE OF ME.
I SURE THAT IF IT COULD BLEED IT WOULD
PEOPLE LIKE MYSELF ARE MISUNDERSTOOD
WE ARE ALL HURTING AND IN SO MUCH PAIN
LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN.
THE TEARS OF SADDNESS I CANNOT HELP BUT WEEP
MY BROKEN HEART IS MINE ALONE TO KEEP
ONLY ANOTHER PERSON LIKE MYSELF WOULD KNOW
JUST HOW HARD IT IS TO LET OUR REAL FEELINGS SHOW........
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________________♣♣ I CARRY YOUR HEART WITH ME
I CARRY IT IN MY HEART
I AM NEVER WITHOUT IT
ANY WHERE I GO YOU GO MY DARLING
AND WHATEVER IS DONE BY ONLY ME
IS YOUR DOING.ΖΈΜ΅Μ‘ΣΜ΅Μ¨ΜΖ·
ΖΈΜ΅Μ‘ΣΜ΅Μ¨ΜΖ· I HOPE THAT YOU ALL HAVE A BEAUTIFUL DAY
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*~*~*~*GOODNIGHT SWEET ANGEL*~*~*~*
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Do you make them laugh in Heaven,
does your smile bring them good cheer?
Do you make the sun shine brighter,
like you did when you were here?
The very mention of your name,
the memories of your smile,
The little things you said and did,
are with us all the while.
You meant so very much to us,
there’s nothing left to say,
Except that without you here
there is no perfect day.
For no-one knows the heartache,
that lies behind our smiles,
No-one knows how many times
we have broken down & cried.
We want to tell you something
so there won't be any doubt,
You're so wonderful to think of,
but so hard to be without.
We hold you close within our hearts,
and there you shall remain.
To walk with us throughout our lives,
until we meet again.
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SLEEP TIGHT ANGEL
♥♥♥ 27TH JUNE 2009 ♥♥♥
It doesn,t take a special day
To bring you to my mind
Every day is special to me
You were one of a kind.
I think of you often
Mostly at the night
Where dreams help to soften
A love that felt so right.
I know you'l always be with me
Right till the very end
Until the day we meet again
My heart will never mend.
LOTS OF LOVE, JUDE.X
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26TH JUNE 2009
Always With You.
I will be with you no matter where you are,
I will be the breeze you feel or the brightest star,
A gentle butterfly with colours all aglow,
I will be with you no matter where you go,
When you feel someone standing close to you,
Do not be afraid for it is I coming through,
I have not really left you, for I am all around you,
Although you can not see me, you will feel me close to you,
So until the time is right, just remember me with love,
For one day in the future, you will join me in Heaven above.
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Copyright @ Sandy
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The years will fall like autumn leaves upon his memory.
The touch of Time will ease the heartache, gently, tenderly...
It cannot always be like this; the agony will cease.
And I, resigned, shall find at last - my healing and my peace.
There comes a time when grief must end and sorrow pass away.
Never will he be forgotten - but there'll come a day -
when I shall remember him without a stab of pain -
happy in the secret knowledge that we'll meet again.
(Patience Strong)
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![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/85aee57a1e47c84103028cae366e0f4f/sdartboard.jpg "Allen-
You are greatly missed. Tell all them "Oakies" that we love and miss them all.
God Bless You-
Pat")
