| Location | Tulsa, Oklahoma |
| Age | 39 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 22/02/1969 |
| Date of Death | 04/04/2008 |
| Visitors | 2,292 since 16/01/2009 |
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Allen was born Feb. 22, 1969 to Joe & Lois Bauders. He was the sweetest, cutest baby. My mom's &
dad's first grand child. He was our everything. When He was 2 1/2 yrs., his baby brother, Terry was
born. Allen was only a baby himself, and was never jealous of him. He loved his brother. We lived at
Mingo, on the outskirts of Tulsa, Okla. He started school at Mingo Elementary, where he attended for
8 yrs. He played in the band, played basketball and baseball. He was a terrific pitcher. Other
coaches from the other teams would even comment on his pitching ability. We moved to Collinsville
where he graduated from Collinsville High School in 1987. He attended vo-tech for 2 yrs. where he
learned his trade as a machinst. He loved the cabin. We spent all of our summers down there. He
loved to water ski, drive the pontoon,kept the fire pit going,always spashing someone with water! He
was always bringing down some sort of toy for the kids to play with. He loved kids, and was a big
kid himself. That's what we all loved about him, always joking, & cutting up. He & Terry could
really make us laugh. Our boys had that very special brother bond. Even though they wouldn't see
each other all the time, they had the brother love, and everyone that knew them, knew that. He was
brought up with cats & dogs. He loved animals. He got this dog that was part wolf & german shepard,
named him "Dakota". He raised him from a puppy. Had Dakota for years, then mom & dad got him when he
was really old. Took care of him til he died. (Our grand dog). He never really got another one for
himself. His wife Kelly would bring dogs in and had 1 when they married in March, 2006. He loved
them all. (More grand dogs!)Allen died April 4, 2008 in a single car accident. It was the worst day
of our lives. We miss him so much, words can't even express. Our family is no longer whole. We know
that we will join him in Heaven, when God calls us each home. In the meantime, we have our memories,
and know that he is and always will be with us in spirit. He is with his "Mema" Waleeta Gordon, who
went to Heaven Sept. 10, 2005. She was waiting for him with open arms. We miss both of them so very
much.
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♥ REMEMBERING ♥ (Author Unknown) ♥
♥ There will come a day
♥ when your tears of sorrow
♥ will softly flow into tears of remembrance...
♥ and your heart will begin to heal itself...
♥ and grieving will be interrupted by episodes of joy...
♥ and you will hear the whisper of hope.
♥ There will come a day
♥ when you will welcome the tears of remembrance...
♥ as a sunshower of the soul...
♥ a turning of the tide...
♥ a promise of peace.
♥ There will come a day when you will...
♥ risk loving...
♥ go on believing...
♥ and treasure the tears of remembering.
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*** Love to you and your Angel from Mel. ***
27TH JULY 2009
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26TH JULY 2009
It's Sunday again and the days pass so fast,
But my love for you will always last.
The days go by in such a blur,
Oh I wish that you were here.
︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽
Days turn into months..
Months turn into years..
I still love you with all my heart..
And only wish we never had to part.
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It's Sunday again and there is not a sound,
Theres not even many people walking around.
For Sunday you see is a day of rest..
You should know my angel..
Because you are the best.
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So my darling angel I just want to say...
Have a peaceful Sunday in heaven today.
And remember it's not just on a Sunday I love and miss you..
I love and miss you every day of the week too.
︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽
SENDING YOU SUNDAY BLESSINGS, MAY YOU HAVE A PEACEFUL DAY, LOVE JUDE. X X
︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽
copyright� Jackie Thomas 14/06/09.
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High Flight.
Oh, I have slipped the surly bonds of earth
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings.
Sunward I've climbed and joined the tumbling mirth
Of sun split clouds - and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of; wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence. Hovering there
I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless halls of air;
Up, up the long delirious burning blue
I've topped the windswept heights with easy grace,
Where never lark nor even eagle flew;
And while, with silent lifting mind I've trod
The high, un-trespassed sanctity of space
Put out my hand and touched the face of God.
(by John Gillespie McGee)
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♥`RAINBOW •`♥
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When you think your road is rocky and a bit too steep to climb,
When you think your guardian angel needs to work some overtime,
When your personal jigsaw puzzle has some pieces that won't fit,
When life has no rhyme or reason and you can't make sense of it,
YOU NEED A RAINBOW When the clouds are dark and stormy
And have blocked the sunshine out, And perhaps you start to wonder
What this life is all about, When your trials and tribulations seem to be so hard to bear,
And it seems there is no justice anytime or anywhere, LOOK FOR YOUR RAINBOW
When the molehills seem like mountains and the obstacles are great,
When you feel so heavy laden and your worries just inflate,
When you can't see any ending to the problems that you face,
For they just keep on increasing and you need some breathing space,
PRAY FOR YOUR RAINBOW It may be you need to look a little higher than before,
Or perhaps a little further to see past the clouds once more.
But you'll know it's worth the effort when your rainbow you can see,
And you understand the love behind God's creativity,
SEARCH FOR YOUR RAINBOW
For your rainbow holds a promise that this turbulence will cease,
And your inner conflict will become, instead, deep inner peace.
But if, though searching, you can't find your rainbow at this time,
Until you can, I say with love, you're welcome to share mine.
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22ND JULY 2009
❤ THINKING OF YOU TODAY AND EVERY DAY ❤
✰ I MISS YOU ✰ I MISS YOU ✰ I MISS YOU ✰
✰ I LOVE YOU ✰ I LOVE YOU ✰ I LOVE YOU ✰
✰ I MISS YOU ✰ I MISS YOU ✰ I MISS YOU ✰
✰ I LOVE YOU ✰ I LOVE YOU ✰ I LOVE YOU ✰
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✰✰✰✰✰✰✰ FOREVER AND EVER. ✰✰✰✰✰✰✰
21ST JULY 2009
✿✿❀✿❀✿...REMEMBERING...❀✿❀✿❀✿
We want to always remember
the beautiful life you lived
and keep alive the memories we have
through remembering what you did.
For you're so special to all of us
a wonderful person indeed
your love, laughter and warmth
reflected a heart that believed.
Just in the everyday things we do
we remember your faith and love
in the words you spoke to help us through
is a continued reminder for us.
Although we miss you so very much
we know we'll see you once more
for this is the hope we have in god
being re-united in the Lord.
And as we gather we'll continue to share
special times we went through
for these are memories that warm our hearts
as we honour the memory of you.
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LOVE JUDE.X
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19TH JULY 2009
Just letting you know I was here......
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to leave lots of love and kisses for you.xx
YOU’RE ABSENCE
Absence makes the heart grow fonder
That’s what people say
And I found that, an honest fact
As I sat and thought today.
Your picture there before me
A tear was in my eye
I couldn’t even stroke your hair
I could only sit, and sigh.
A little lump came to my throat
Again, a little sigh
I had to put your picture down
Or else I’d start to cry.
But, no matter how long the time may be
Or how long we are apart
I’ll always keep your picture
Here, within my heart.
FLY MY ANGEL FLY
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![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/85aee57a1e47c84103028cae366e0f4f/sdartboard.jpg "Allen-
You are greatly missed. Tell all them "Oakies" that we love and miss them all.
God Bless You-
Pat")
