| Location | Tulsa, Oklahoma |
| Age | 39 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 22/02/1969 |
| Date of Death | 04/04/2008 |
| Visitors | 2,291 since 16/01/2009 |
| Creator |
Allen was born Feb. 22, 1969 to Joe & Lois Bauders. He was the sweetest, cutest baby. My mom's &
dad's first grand child. He was our everything. When He was 2 1/2 yrs., his baby brother, Terry was
born. Allen was only a baby himself, and was never jealous of him. He loved his brother. We lived at
Mingo, on the outskirts of Tulsa, Okla. He started school at Mingo Elementary, where he attended for
8 yrs. He played in the band, played basketball and baseball. He was a terrific pitcher. Other
coaches from the other teams would even comment on his pitching ability. We moved to Collinsville
where he graduated from Collinsville High School in 1987. He attended vo-tech for 2 yrs. where he
learned his trade as a machinst. He loved the cabin. We spent all of our summers down there. He
loved to water ski, drive the pontoon,kept the fire pit going,always spashing someone with water! He
was always bringing down some sort of toy for the kids to play with. He loved kids, and was a big
kid himself. That's what we all loved about him, always joking, & cutting up. He & Terry could
really make us laugh. Our boys had that very special brother bond. Even though they wouldn't see
each other all the time, they had the brother love, and everyone that knew them, knew that. He was
brought up with cats & dogs. He loved animals. He got this dog that was part wolf & german shepard,
named him "Dakota". He raised him from a puppy. Had Dakota for years, then mom & dad got him when he
was really old. Took care of him til he died. (Our grand dog). He never really got another one for
himself. His wife Kelly would bring dogs in and had 1 when they married in March, 2006. He loved
them all. (More grand dogs!)Allen died April 4, 2008 in a single car accident. It was the worst day
of our lives. We miss him so much, words can't even express. Our family is no longer whole. We know
that we will join him in Heaven, when God calls us each home. In the meantime, we have our memories,
and know that he is and always will be with us in spirit. He is with his "Mema" Waleeta Gordon, who
went to Heaven Sept. 10, 2005. She was waiting for him with open arms. We miss both of them so very
much.
♥
12TH SEPTEMBER 2009
With Love. xXx
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~~ The Ascending ~~
(by Kahlil Gibran)
I have passed a mountain peak and my soul is soaring in the
Firmament of complete and unbound freedom;
I am far, far away, my companions, and the clouds are
Hiding the hills from my eyes.
The valleys are becoming flooded with an ocean of silence, and the
Hands of oblivion are engulfing the roads and the houses;
The prairies and fields are disappearing behind a white specter
That looks like the spring cloud, yellow as the candlelight
And red as the twilight.
The songs of the waves and the humans of the streams
Are scattered, and the voices of the throngs reduced to silence;
And I can hear naught but the music of Eternity
In exact harmony with the spirit's desires.
I am cloaked in full whiteness;
I am in comfort; I am in peace.
♥ .•**•.. ♥ ♥ .•**•.. ♥ ♥ .•**•.. ♥ ♥ .•**•.. ♥ ♥ .•**•.. ♥ ♥ .•**•.. ♥
Precious Memory
The rain may wash my pain away
The wind may dry my tears
The Summer sun may heal my heart
And time subdue my fears
But nothing in the world below
Or in the Heavens above
Will ever take away
The precious memory of your love
By : Catherine Turner
☆ Goodnight Precious Angel ☆
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.....love Jude. x
♥
♥I Hear Each Tear♥
My Mom doesn't know I'm watching her
but I'm watching her just the same.
And I hear each tear fall on her face
at the mention of my name.
She says it sounds like music to her ears
and be heard over a crowd.
Oh, I hear each tear fall on her face,
when my name is said aloud.
I watch her stumble through each day
as she wishes the day would end.
And I hear each tear fall on her face
as she talks of me with her friends.
But there are few who truly understand.
Oh this I've heard her proclaim.
And I hear each tear fall on her face.
Will my Mom ever be the same?
I know that her smile can light up a sky,
But I don't see that smile today.
Oh, but I hear each tear fall on her face,
her blue skies have turned to grey.
Oh I send to her my warmest hug
with the rays of the morning sun.
Then I won't hear a tear fall on her face,
for I shall erase them one by one.
Yes, my Mom doesn't know I'm watching her,
but I'm watching her just the same.
And if I hear a tear fall on her face
I'll just softly whisper her name.
(Kay Des'Ormeaux)
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
In The Light.
A shadow of joy flickered, it is me.
I told you I wouldn't leave.
My spirit is with you.
My memories, my thoughts are embedded deep in your heart.
I still love you.
Do not for one moment think that you have been abandoned.
I am in the Light.
In the corner, in the hall, the car, the yard...
these are the places I stay with you.
My spirit rises every time you pray for me,
but my energy comes closer to you.
Love does not diminish, it grows stronger.
I am the feather that finds you in the yard,
the dimmed light that grows brighter in your mind.
I place our memories for you to see.
We lived in our special way, a way that now has it's focus changed.
I still crave your understanding and long for the
many words of prayer and good fortune for my soul.
I am in the Light.
As you struggle to adjust without me, I watch silently.
Sometimes, I summon up all the strength of my new world
to make you notice me.
Impressed by your grief,
I try to impress my love deeper into your consciousness.
As you should, I call out to the Heaven's for help.
You should know that the fountain of youth does exist.
My soul is now healthy.
Your love sends me new found energy.
I am adjusting to this new world.
I am with you and I am in the Light.
Please don't feel bad that you can't see me.
I am with you wherever you go.
Talk to me and somehow I will find a way to answer you.
Mother, Father, son or daughter, it makes no difference.
Brother, sister, lover, husband or wife, it makes no difference.
Whatever our connection - friend or even foe - I see you with my new eyes.
I am learning to help wherever you are,
wherever I am needed.
This can be done because I am in the Light.
When you feel despair, reach out to me.
I will come.
Our love for you truly does transcend from Heaven to Earth.
Finish your life with the enthusiasm and zest that you had
when we were together in the physical sense.
You owe this to me, but more importantly, you owe it to yourself.
Life continues for both of us.
I am with you because I love you and I am in the Light.
(Author Unknown)
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
31ST AUGUST 2009
~*~ BOTTLE OF LOVE ~*~
♥ I bottled up a bunch of hugs
To send them off to you,
♥ Friendship hugs, hugs of love,
Even bear hugs too!
♥ It's filled with the most special hugs,
Only the very best would do!
♥ I hope that you'll remember this
Whenever you feel blue,
♥ Because these special, bottled hugs
Should last the whole year through!
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♥ WITH LOVE AND THANKS FROM JUDE. X X ♥
♥
❁ Heaven and Earth ❁
♥When the warmth of the sun touches my face,
♥I see your smile and feel your embrace.
♥I hear the whisper of love in the wind
♥And I know that you are close to me again.
♥The rain speaks of tears, the thunder of pain,
♥But soon the sun comes the earth to reclaim.
♥As the days come and go and the world moves on,
♥I know you're still here, you'll never be gone.
♥On the night the Angel came and took your hand,
♥We cried as you left for an unknown land.
♥But Heaven rejoiced as you came into sight.
♥For your soul was a diamond, shining so bright!
Written by Karen McCombs
Love always xxxx xxxx
Bed time kisses full of love..❤ ❤ ❤
For a beautiful Angel..❤ ❤ ❤
In heaven above❤ ❤ ❤
Bed time kisses..❤ ❤ ❤
Sent for you..❤ ❤ ❤
Just to say we love you too❤ ❤ ❤
Bed time kisses..❤ ❤ ❤
All wrapped up with love❤ ❤ ❤
For a precious Angel..❤ ❤ ❤
Up above❤ ❤ ❤
Bed time kisses..❤ ❤ ❤
For our Angel we miss..❤ ❤ ❤
Here my Angel..❤ ❤ ❤
Is an extra kiss ❤
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┊ ┊┊ ┊┊ ★★ ★Bed time kisses♥
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┊ ┊┊ ★For a special Angel♥
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┊ ★We love and miss♥
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★Always♥
•♥ The Messenger ♥•
Written by Kirsti (Angel scribe)
From an Angel on high
a tender message of love was softly whispered into the ear
of this humble scribe....
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Weep not for me
now that I have passed.
Remember the laughter, the affection, the joy
not just the recent tears.
Cherish the memories, our hopes and dreams.
Hold fast to the love that we shared.
Be happy with the time we spent together
and being anew.
For I am not really gone,
I am closer than ever before.
As the morning sun rises
and throughout the busy day...I am with you.
Until the setting sun disappears on the horizon
and we watch the day turn into night...I am here.
You may feel a faint breeze stir round your head, while you slumber
as I gently kiss your forehead, "Good night."
The stars that shine so brightly in my heavenly sky
help me watch over you and keep you from harm.
I am the wind in the trees
and the song of a bird.
I am moonbeams in a midnight sky
and a glorious rainbow after the storm.
I am morning dew
and freshly-fallen snow.
I am a butterfly flying overhead
and a puppy happily at play.
I am a smile on a stranger's face
a gentle touch
a warm embrace.
Listen to the wind for my message of love.
Watch the sun rise and set in the sky with me.
Feel my essence encircle you with warm memories.
Open your heart to know...I am not gone.
Reach deep into your soul...You will find me.
I am here.
Have no fear.
I am with you,
Always.
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You are greatly missed. Tell all them "Oakies" that we love and miss them all.
God Bless You-
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